Curriculum Overload

I feel like I should just take up residence at my local Homeschool Resource store. It seems I've been living among the stacks for the last couple of weeks. I think I decide on one curriculum brand, then when I go to look at it more closely, I see something I like better. I think I know what will benefit the kids, then I question my objectives. There are so many good options, and so many incredible approaches, that I'm having the hardest time making a decision.

I have decided that I won't be using LifePac, as I previously thought I would (with the exception of Bible. I may still go that route.). I think workbook after workbook would bore the kids. Instead, I'll be using a variety of products and educational approaches. Of course, nothing is final yet, but at this point, I think I've come pretty close to making a decision. (Note: my knowledge is still quite limited, but I've convinced myself I know what I'm talking about.)

For math, I believe we're going to use Rod & Staff Math, and that for a few reasons. In opposition to the spiraling approach found in Saxon and A Beka products, R&S relies on drills and facts, which was something that was sort of skipped over when I was in school. Being married to the human calculator is a bit intimidating when I still multiply on my fingers. Additionally, the cost of the Rod & Staff curriculum is very reasonable. The hardback Teacher's Edition costs less than the consumable student texts in other programs. Since we're just getting started and we're buying stuff for every subject, since we'll need textbooks for learning math at two different grade levels, and since our overall expenses are climbing, the cost-effectiveness of this program is very appealing. The customer reviews for Rod & Staff are very promising, and it appears to be just what we're looking for.

I feel most passionate about Language Arts, however, it's the subject causing me the most frustration. I've looked at The Shurley Method, and don't think it's for us. I've read a few books and websites about the Charlotte Mason method, and while I think it's a really interesting approach to learning, I think as a whole, it's a bit too liberal and unpredictable for our structured family. Part of me thinks we'd benefit by settling somewhere in the middle, perhaps by using Learning Language Arts Through Literature or Five in a Row. But then, when I think about all of the topics covered in one book, I wonder how my advanced readers would benefit. I think they wouldn't be as challenged as they should be. Instead, we'll likely pick a Grammar curriculum (like BJU) and a solid Phonics/Spelling program like Phonics Zoo or Explode the Code.

Since those are the two major subjects for their grade level, I feel like once I make a final decision, we're good. To supplement those subjects, we'll work a bit on History (A Beka) and Science (BJU). Bub expressed an interest in learning some French, so I have a Basic French text and some Teach Me French CDs. I have some really great stuff for Art, but for music, I'm stumped (other than enrolling them in private lessons). I nearly bought three years worth of God Made Music curriculum today, but decided since I don't know my do-re from my ti-do, I should wait.

Meanwhile, a friend in Oklahoma called ]today to say that she has everything I need for second and third grade, provided I come to the Tulsa area to pick it up. The kids and I were hoping to go up once more before we began schooling, so the timing could not be more ideal. Regardless of how much research I've done, what she gives us will play a part in the decisions we make. I'd love any thoughts, tips, or advice.